In writing a condolence note, you do not want to say anything judgmental or controlling. Your comments should be supportive, considerate and caring. Just speak from your heart.

Letters of condolence are serious letters that do not require printed embellishments of any kind. It is peculiar to think that a mass stamped expression -- “Sympathy,” or in the case of ...

I have always known how important it is to write people notes, and while I have usually been pretty good about it, I often procrastinate. More than once I have come across a sympathy card I should ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: Is it considered necessary to write notes of sympathy about a death on cards specially designed for the purpose? I have given up on finding cards that are acceptable and instead ...

If you buy a card with a pre-printed note of sympathy must you add your own words as well?

The messages came from a preschool teacher, a neighbor and even an adult brother, all of them participating in the latest in funeral trends: virtual sympathy notes.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: Is it considered necessary to write notes of sympathy about a death on cards specially designed for the purpose? I have given up on finding cards that are acceptable and instead ...

While there are some beautiful sentiments expressed in the sympathy cards you can buy in stores, the bereaved say that a personal note makes it more meaningful for them.